There's only one truth of life and it is DEATH, everything else is just a false idea we want to entertain and convince ourselves of them as truth. The other truth is that Death can take away life, it seems that it has won over life, but what's not realized is that death cannot be greater than love, it can NEVER overpower love. Love is Supreme and only love can ensure that the one's we loved always remain with us. We're caught in the moment and our emotions do not let us think and see the higher purpose beyond this moment of death.

When I hear of death, of my loved ones or those unknown, i cry. I cry out of pain, but more importantly it makes me sad that I am still alive and I have a lot more to suffer and face the life each day. The one's who are embraced by death are the lucky ones who finished their purpose here earlier than the rest of us and they have moved on to the next life to serve a greater purpose. Do not cry for the one who is gone from this world. Only in our ideas, we think they're dead, but in reality they have transformed into somebody else where. If you cry out of love or attachment for the one who's gone, then we must remember that they've been assigned another life by Lord Almighty/Supreme Power to spread and teach the same kind of love we experienced in their presence and we must learn to accept the idea of sharing that sort of love and letting them go in peace coz they taught us what we had to, but only we never realized when they were around us. Now its time there are other people who receive the gift of love. This teaches us the most important lesson of letting go and at the same time appreciate the one's who are still around us. Let us love them more, learn more from them and even more importantly let them know that we love them back equally while they are still here around us. 

Soon, there will come a time when you'll have to leave this world too. Make sure you've give so much love and spread so much positivity that there are a lot of people who will remember you for what you've given them and they will do the same thing in return to others. Death is feared upon, but death is beautiful. It puts an end to the sorrows and miseries. It takes away something from each of us, but leaves us with something more precious and it is the gift of wisdom to love more fiercely, immensely, wildly and without any filters or limitations. 

We are species stupid enough to fear telling someone we love, but we do not fear facing death. Let me do my part by reminding you that I love you a lot for the person you are, in all the ways and in all the forms that you choose to be. Let this piece of writing serve the purpose to let you know that I love you for the immensely vivid and such magnificent soul you are and your existence in lives our each life directly or indirectly connected to you is greatly appreciated. Until death do us apart, i will love you and there's no greater truth or purpose of this life.

Again, my idea of celebrating women for a day is different from the rest of the world. I do not believe in the concept of making someone feel special (rather say fool them) for a day and then treat them like a trash for the rest of the year. In fact, the celebration of one gender itself is a testament and start of inequality. Shouldn't we be encouraging to celebrate a better person or better human than debating about better gender?

You wanna know whats your real value for today? You will be attracted by discounts, coupons, special offers at boutiques, parlor, malls, that's the only attraction you will have today for being a woman. You will receive flowers, gifts, jewelery or clothes today and that's the only materialistic value you will be weighed in today for being a woman. Your gender has only left you to be no less than a product that will lead to high sales value and good business. Is that really what you are? Meaningless Poetries, cheesy meaningless messages shall be written for you for that's the only meaning you will have to your life today for being a woman. Movies and art films will be shown across different media because that's the only kind of art you will remain today for being a woman. You will be busy today drowning yourself in all those unreal and dreamy world and fake people being presented to you today with not a little idea that tomorrow will not be woman's day, you have no slightest gist of whats coming ahead tomorrow! 

Why don't you for once show your real strength and stand against such stupid ideology of celebrating a gender once a year and the ask what happens the rest of the year? You've been tortured, blamed, mentally abused, physically harassed by people of both genders and yet you are easily fooled to believe that you are celebrated and special today? 

Let me ask you a few questions but do not expect an answer for it. The answers are supposed to be food for your own thought. Where was your strength when you decided to keep mum about those dirty stares and piercing eyes when you walked on the road? Why didn't you raise your voice when someone let their devilish idea turn into reality and it lead to laying their unworthy hands on you? Where was your dignity when you decided to put up a skin show and present yourself as a mere product to those lusty and luring eyes or just get naked and let his filthy mind take advantage of you? Where was your kindness when you got carried away by someone else's wrong input about someone you loved/cared but eventually end up blaming them for things they never did? Why did you decide to hold on to the ego even though you realize your mistake and not forgive them? Was it so important to win an argument than lose your integrity? Why did you decided to lose your honesty and grace when you bitched about someone just coz they couldn't fit in your idea and ways of life? 

I do not deny your sacrifices, your strength, integrity and all those big words being used today. I only ask, why is it important to just throw these words around once a year and not put them into practice every day? Have you appreciated those who have really added to your life rather than just take away your peace? No doubt you are the most magnificent creation of Lord Almighty but do remember you have flaws and you’re not perfect. So, do not get fooled in the moment and get carried away by these illogical concepts where you only end up remaining a product and means for someone’s entertainment or earning. The real definition of women isn’t anywhere close what is being presented in the form of flowers, cards, gifts, free coupons and sales and that's nowhere really close to empowerment. 

When you stop fighting for a better or quality education, you have degraded your value. When you willingly want to cover your head and not because you were brought up that way or forced to follow it because of religious/cultural beliefs or for the fear of society, that's when you will be a real woman. When you stop playing the helpless poor girl card and when you really take charge and equally stand shoulder to shoulder, you’ll be respected honestly. Stop expecting men to earn and feed you. Why can’t YOU earn and feed a family that raised you to be worthy enough earning and not find the rule of a society to escape your own responsibilities? Why don’t you for once accept and acknowledge the sacrifices made by men for you, which you may never be aware of, but living off in a dream world that you did it all on your own! You are not a damsel in distress, a weakling, you are not someone who needs to be saved and fed with a silver spoon, you can save yourself and you can feed yourself, and you can defend yourself. Be your own knight in shining Armour, let the world cower under your fierce gaze and nobody shall ever look at you like you are a piece of meat unless you decide to present and be like one!

You are not the kind of woman who settles easily, so keep not-settling and take chances, take risks, be the woman you are meant to be, not the woman you were raised to be, not the woman the society wants you to be and absolutely get out of the idea that you were tricked into and forcefully beaten into a mold to fit the idea of a woman. Stop making excuses, excuses like "I can't do it, he'll never allow me to do it", "I can't go out late at night, I'm not allowed to go out after 8 pm", "I can't tell anyone, what would people think?", "I can't fight anymore, I'm not that strong." You are strong and you don't need permission to speak up and take what's yours. The only person not permitting you to be a real woman is You because! you’ve it ingrained in your mind that someone else's idea of living is the way you should be living. Your success isn’t about exceeding in a man’s world or the situations controlled by them. You are only strong when you stop getting influenced by other people's words and ideologies of how you should live your life. I do not ask you to stop being yourself or lose your real identity, i only plead you to stop acknowledging/accepting the misrepresentation and wrongly portrayed idea of being a woman. The only goal of your life is not to serve the man or get married and have kids, you have far more better goals and the most important one must be achieving your dreams.

 I rest my case here. Oh! Well, Happy Women’s Day! 

— VV & UG

Happy Republic Day? What? Come again please?

It only sounds rhythmic and three stupid words put together and just another day to excuse from routine and find a way to holiday. Absolutely it is. 

Firstly we need to free our minds before we speak of freedom and rights and how far we have come after 69 years, because our minds are still stuck in the same time-line, isn't it?

First let's understand whats Republic Day really? I'll keep it short and to the point. Its a day when we wrote our own constitution and put it into effect on January 26, 1950, written by Dr.B.R.Ambedkar, who was a victim of caste based discrimination. So, he created laws to play fair and for equal rights for those that fell under low caste and labor class, by the means of reservation system, which was meant only for 10 years. Result? Screwed up country, worsened situations. 

That reservation system is still being put into effect today. Education sector has reservation system which is illogical and unnecessary coz today in urban lifestyle do we see any discrimination based on caste/religion? 

The unskilled (obviously undeserving too) are being placed on jobs and that not only hinders the progress but over all development of the country is at questionable stake!

These constitutional laws and principles have become of questionable existence now.

Freedom of speech is no more really free! The concept of Equality is now thing of past. People with money get away with crimes or gender decides who has to be punished. 

Talk of women empowerment? First, rewrite the laws that blindly believes one gender is always right and the other gender is always a criminal. 

Banning of food based on cultural/religious values, ban of movies and riots in the name of religion/politics, bravo! We’re heading into a right direction with the principles of our constitution.

We are still lacking the basic resources like roads, quality education, clean drinking water, organic food. We don’t even question the existence of a political party and blindly choose one of them during elections.

School students senselessly parading the streets, adults driving around with flags calling it a patriotic feeling isn’t gonna help here. We have to educate the kids of the situation and how they have to make a change and only then the next generation will be different. 

I am not against India or against the feeling of patriotism, just another common citizen questioning and willing to find solutions to mayhem and chaos spread around in the name of constitutional laws and fundamental rights. Better to stand alone and question and make a difference than to blindly follow masses. 

A better patriot than the most. Jai Hind

—  UG & VV

What is the point of educating a girl, letting her pursue her career for a while and then force her into society approved arranged marriage where the real point of getting married isn't to make her life better but to justify the fulfilling of responsibilities of being parents in the eyes of the society? How could educated minds of these girls and ladies do not protest against any of it and silently decide to put an end to everything they have achieved so far and lead a life serving her husband and his parents?

Likewise, if being a guy you are equally participating in this whole drama of being married to be approved in the eyes of the society and if, in some or the other way you become the reason for your wife to stop pursuing her education/career, what is the use of such educational degrees that you boast about while getting married, if you can't support your better-half to continue doing what she always wanted to do?

okay! for the sake of discussion, let's agree that the girl has chosen this life for herself. But then, why does she have to put down her head always and live a life as if everyone is her master and her only purpose of life is to serve them?

Why should there be criteria of proving one's financial security, educational achievement, high job designations, property, saving, bank balance which are all mere a delusional concepts. Being a parent and being a gal who is willing to marry a person, based on such criteria, ask yourself, whats the guarantee that if the guy proves himself to be financially strong today, he will have the same financial stability always? What is the guarantee that a highly educated person will hold his dignity and respect when angry or when in arguments? Where does educational certificate guarantee about the personal behavior of a person or prove that in the state of aggression he won't be harmful to you?

From a parent's perspective, should we not be looking into most important factors to get your daughter married, to a man who is loving, who truly will respect her and support in her quest and she will not be humiliated or tortured or looked down upon just coz she belongs to a particular gender? Marriage is a responsibility to be shared equally by bride and groom, alas! its only the bride who has to compromise and adjust at every step and surprisingly its their own choice of life.

I rest my case and say again Don't educate a gal, if you only intend to enslave her at every step and every opportunity

Women are rapists too, even more cruel and brutal than the men who have actually committed crime. Lets first get the general idea of rape. Its is forcing oneself upon another without the consent of another. Then, it is absolutely rational to say that there are a bunch of women who are strongly inclined to focus on proving that the opposite gender is only worse and there cannot be a good one ever! Which is wrong! 

I am in no way supporting the brutal acts of rape by men, but please can it be confined to really those men only who have actually committed the crime and the others are NOT to be assumed of the same nature or trait? So, when these bunch of women set out statements that all men are same, not once another wise and educated class of women ask themselves "is this really right? or is this their opinions being shoved into my mind and i should really be forming my own opinion based on what i have experienced personally?". Agreed that there are men who are always trying to lay hands on you, but unless you raise your voice and be strict, they cannot proceed with their evil deeds. 

So, once the wrong notion of "all men are dogs and all men are same" is spread out, it is a forced thought that is shoved into the minds of everyone and as a human we are more prone to pick up and carry on what comes our way rather than ask a question if its even true or not. At this point, when each woman (excluding the ones wise enough) is determined to force and spread the wrong idea about all men, it is an act of forcing oneself upon another without the consent of another gender in question. Wait, go back to first paragraph and read the general idea of rape again? See! Women don't even realize but they have successfully raped the minds of many out there by forcing their own wrong opinions and baseless beliefs based on one bad example. 

If you see one rotten apple, is it right to burn down the whole forest with the notion and suspicion that every thing in the forest may be rotten? Have you once realized that all apples are not rotten but you also forgot that the forest is not only full of apples, but other fruits that you have not even seen or tasted! Like wise, you may have only seen the traits of one man and then tagged the rest of them without even giving a thought that there's a huge possibility of a lot better men than the women itself who co-exist in the same society. 

Not just that, have you even considered how women have mercilessly falsely accused men of rape? After the infamous 2012 gang rape of a student on a bus in Delhi, the number of rape cases reported to police in India rose sharply. But one survey concluded that in Delhi, in 2013-14, more than half of these reports were "false" - fueling claims by male activists that women are alleging rape in order to extort money from men. In most cases men had evidence that could prove, indisputably, they were not a rapist, but getting the police, media and society ruled by biased leaders to recognize their innocence was another matter. Men are found caught up in a system that seemed to care little about the evidence and a lot about branding them a criminal.

While the strengthened laws have done little to curb sexual violence, their unintended side effects are unmistakable. When a body called the Delhi Commission for Women published a report in 2014 describing 53% of rapes reported in the city the previous year as "false" this was seized upon by men's rights activists as evidence that the legal changes and noisy public debate had ended up making victims out of men. Of all the rape cases that are registered, only 1% is genuine, the rest are either registered to take revenge or to take advantage of the person in some financial matter. Forensic evidence is rarely used in Indian rape cases, so it's often just her words against his, which is considered enough to prosecute him.

Mind you, this section is a tight slap on the faces of those women, who blindly say anything about men. One person who decided to do her own investigation was data journalist Rukmini Shrinivasan. When she moved to Delhi from Mumbai to take up a post at The Hindu newspaper, she wanted to know whether Delhi's reputation as the rape capital of India was justified. Instead of counting dropped rape cases, she looked at the 460 cases that went to a full trial in Delhi district courts in 2013 and compared the initial complaint made to police with what happened in court. Her first discovery was that the media's alarm about stranger rape was overblown as it accounted for just 12 of the 460 cases. More than one third of the 460 cases involved young people who had engaged in consensual sex outside marriage until their parents found out and used the criminal justice system to end the relationship. Families are more willing to have the stigma of rape rather than having the stigma of their daughter choosing her own sex or life partner. 

Rukmini found that many of these cases dealt with inter-caste or mixed-religion relationships which are considered taboo in conservative society. There was often a typical script that was used when parents filed the case with the police. "I was repeatedly seeing stories of women being picked up in moving cars, being given a cold drink laced with sedatives which would render them unconscious, and then they would be raped," she said. "But when I started reading more and more cases I realized that there are patterns to how complaints are filed. So this sedative-laced drink becomes important because it is necessary to show that consent was not given." Another large category - nearly a quarter of the total - were cases where the man had broken his promise to marry the woman. Although this would not be considered rape in many countries, in India a man can be charged with falsely obtaining consent for sex if he promises to marry a woman and then changes his mind. "The parents say, 'You've lost your virginity, it's going to be impossible to get you married, you file this case, he'll get scared and he'll marry you,'" says Rukmini. Even if one is acquitted, one cannot regain that status. You can't prove your innocence to each and every person. People are quick to judge in a rape case without even knowing whether the person is guilty or not. A sessions judge in Delhi wondered whether those honorably acquitted of rape must also be considered rape survivors. Besides the obvious unfairness to innocent men, false accusations clog the overburdened judiciary and undermine the credence of genuine victims. The current scenario of an unrealistically low burden of proof (the law presumes a woman will not falsely claim to have been raped) coupled with an unacceptably high rate of false accusations is a perfect recipe for miscarriage of justice.

Viewing crimes against women merely as a law and order problem without addressing the underlying causes of the crime will not solve the problem of violence against women. The knee jerk approach of increasing criminal liability and enacting overly broad laws without understanding its unintended side effects has and will continue to only lead to questionable convictions and frittering away of resources from genuine victims. 

You must be wondering why all that irrelevant things are discussed? Because of the same debate that there are bunch of women who have spread the notion that all men are equal and all men are rapist and that has lead to the situation where innocent men are being accused of the crime that they never did and their whole life is turned upside down. Before you make your next statement, please form your own opinion and ask yourself really how many men have you seen committing such crime and your opinion is not based on what you have seen and heard from other people and that of media. Am sure, after speaking to a handful of women, who genuinely turned out to be wise, agree that not all men are same and it is absolutely those few small minds that try to beat all men into same mold of rapists and bad, and thats no different than being raped. For being a man, i have been abused, battered and bullied and it happens almost everyday from women who are always trying to ride on idea, we'll try every lie, every act just to prove that you should be guilty of the crime you never did, coz you belong a different gender. 

The references and parts of above articles have been taken from the below blog posts, which have been extensively revised and verified by the experts of this field, so with that notion, i hope it is a reliable place to seek references. Your opinions may vary and its okay to take your rant elsewhere but here. 

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-38796457

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/ash-murthy/a-prosecutors-disillusion_b_8100626.html

There’s a new flavor of Ice cream in the market and only those super rich class of people can afford it because they are free from the thoughts and world of those the rest poor and bounded slaves and they don’t care what the rest of the world thinks of them. Not many have tasted this new flavoured, taste-bud tickling delight coz its not for everyone in the first place. And that's exactly is Atheism! 

Its a tad bit difficult to sink in the above ideology and comparison, so let's make things simpler. To fully understand Atheism, one needs to first understand what is Religion and its purpose.

According to Wikipedia, religion is the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, especially a personal God or gods. There are 7-10 major religions and over 20 more, not very well-known practices around the world, each with their own ideology, their particular belief system, dos and don’ts. Today, its a common practice that people from one religion try to over-power those from other religion and as a result, religion has become one of the major causes of mass killing in the world. Doesn’t that sound a bit harsh? Truth is always like that and let's journey into how and why it all came into existence. 

The origin of religion seems to be validated differently by different experts of religions. Upon talking to a few elderly people, the most common belief was that the existence of religion must have started with a notion to bring everyone under a common umbrella and a common belief. There may have been a time when mankind must have gotten uncontrollable and they must have done things to upset many in the society and that's when the learned (or the smartest ones) must have come up with the concept of being organized and keep all the humans under control. Amongst all the other factors to keep everyone humble and together, fear seemed to work the best. That's exactly what is the base of most major religions around the world.

While religion was supposed to bring everyone under one ideology and one belief system, there were multiple ideologies rising and each one wanted to have their own way of organizing the humanity and control the way of life. And that's how, many religions came into existence. While major parts of each religion is more or less same, but a few ideas were in disagreement with each other and contradicting the belief system of other religions. 

Unless there is competition, there’s no scope of growth. That same thing happened with the religions. 

Each religion had their controllers who wanted to grow their control and become more powerful. It demanded people from one religion to convince those from other religions to discard their current belief and replace it with the new belief. Even here the battle was to bring everyone under the same ideology and umbrella, but now there were too many umbrellas to seek from. It all has come to an extent that killing in the name of a particular religion is a matter of pride and the real purpose and motivation, is a matter long forgotten.

While each person participated in one or the other religion and became part of the game being administered by the priests and pastors, there were few who only remained spectators of the situation and understood that they do not need to be part of this game of fooling or being fooled. They chose to remain out of any of these belief systems or being forced (by means of fear) to be god-fearing and to become a good person because they believed in a particular god. These spectators are the ones who clearly understood why the religions existed and how their purpose was being mend, bend and amend by the religious masters to their own benefits. They disregard any sort of belief system or being remotely connected to them and these are the people we call atheists. 

The main reason why Atheists exists is because the religion exists. And people turn into atheists because, either they have learnt and practiced too much of religion or they’ve no idea how and why one should exist in a religious boundage. 

Upon talking to a few atheists, i came across this person, who didn’t want his real identity to be revealed and who seems to have a few harsh words to say, but it is undeniably true as well. When asked for the reason behind not disclosing his identity, I learned that anyone speaking against the belief system are targeted and brutally killed. There have been uncountable incidents across Bangladesh, Pakistan, India, Israel, Iraq, China and across most European countries.  Here are a few of his quotes.

We are born, right inside the womb. The life starts and we have a world to share, with our mama. Our food is what she eats, drinks and we start living in a world that is shared by her. Its all safe and no worries can ever touch us. The real challenge begins when you take birth and come into this world. That ONE WORLD you shared with mama, is no more the only world!

You now share a world with your dad, another little world with your brother, another with sister and so on. In fact, we all have got these bunch of little worlds that we got to share, even before we are conscious of it or matured enough to understand it. This is going to give your brain nerves a little trouble, but stick with me to see how I look at the life really.

When we start growing up, there is this little world shared with dad where he teaches us to walk, he throws us into the air to let go off our fears, supports us at every little step in life we take and as we keep growing up, the world shared with dad gets smaller and smaller as his world is more occupied of work and responsibilities. But remember, you still share that small part of your world with him, as he does it with you, and no matter what, this will always remain important to both you and him! Then we have other little worlds that we share with each of our siblings. This world is very significant as you share your little secrets, your little stupid acts, your feelings and emotions and you grow up together! 

What I really mean by the word WORLD is that you have a different state of your mind when you talk to your mom than your dad and that of your siblings. You do not talk to each of them in a same way, same attitude and same things! When you talk to mom, usually you have love n respect for her and with dad is love and honor and feeling of thankfulness for all that he does for the family, for siblings its love and a strong bond and sometimes a feeling of being one mind, two souls in two bodies and sometimes totally a feeling of being lost too!

We form such little world with each person we interact, meet or come in contact with. We share a separate world with each of our friends. Some worlds are just there to talk and some others just to ruin your day and a couple of worlds are your favorite as you feel very happy and emotionally supported. 

Then, there forms a world that really occupies the vast part of your life, THE LOVE, that really opens up an another world within yourself, that you never knew existed! It almost takes over the rest of your worlds and you just want nothing else but this world to freeze there, for always, and sure there comes a time when this world shatters and along with it, blows away most of the other worlds we have. 

We are always hopping and switching from one world to another, not even realizing the fact that they do exist, few that were created even before we were conscious of them, and many others that we create and destroy almost everyday! And at any given point of time, we are overlapping our little world with that of others’. 

Here is one such world in which, we have our little secrets and i just love the little world we share! No promises made, no demands, no questions, no lies and a total freedom to be ourselves and talk anything literally and yet be un-judged of being good or bad! And right the moment I switch away from this world, I feel I am masked, am faking. 

Life never ends, the worlds do!

A woman's real beauty is hidden in and on her skin. There are volumes of stories written on them. A few stories beneath the skin that are invisible and then those visible ones that are written all across her skin. 

There may be times when she had been heart-broken or sad or had a mood swing or menstrual cycle and she decided to munch on those cheese filled delicacies or chocolates and ice creams. These bitter and hard times have been converted in the form of fat and flab under her skin and they are only acknowledging the Sovereignty#1 of her life before taking control over her emotions. Some of them may have gone through medical procedures or genetic struggle in the body which has lead to those invisible stories hiding under her skin in the form of flab. Do not look at her size, instead only grab her, kiss her hard, kiss her deep and let her know all her invisible stories and struggles that she had been through, you accept them and they will never become a reason for her to feel neglected or ignored.

And then there are those visible marks. The scars that she bears, stand proof of her struggling phase in a relationship where a monster had decided to overpower her and leave those bitter remarks on them. Sometimes you see stretch marks, which speak for the times when she decided to take control and work things out, to stay fit or to give birth to a new life. You can find them all over her back, her shoulders, on the chest, on the waist, on the hips, thighs and sometimes on her soul. Kiss those stretch marks, bury your face in them for you could only find the fragrance of her beautiful life, which is a collection of every small and big story she has been part of, thats the visible part of her soul you see.

And there are those, who have inked (tattoo) their skin. These are those free-spirited, gypsy minds and winged souls who don't hesitate to go through the piercing  of needles, embrace all those pain because they know, its only going to turn out beautifully once the pain is gone. 

Let them know, no amount of fat, flab, ink, scars or stretch marks could make them less important and they will only be adored, appreciated and loved more for learning from their past and be wiser today. dear fellow mate (men), please learn only to add a little crack to her skin, when you crush her gently in your arms and leave her elated and filled with joys of being accepted for who she really is. Dear women, i kneel before your supremacy and divine entity for embracing everything and everyone with so much love that you shower, even on those undeserving ones, i bow down to your humility for not taking credits of your godly existence and for being the elixir of life. I dedicate this piece of writing to you and to every woman out there, regardless and assure I love you.

#1 Sovereignty is the full right and power of a governing body over itself, without any interference from outside sources or bodies 

This is a biography of The Girl, that I know and believe, is soon stepping into a new life and going to be a Woman of responsibilities and a homemaker. Her story is no different than many Women in this world, yet she is the most beautiful and no match! For her dulcet and demure nature, she is wrongly placed into this world rather than in a world that could easily exceed all the glory, goodness and divinity of a heaven, yet she conflates very well here. She is enigmatic, emollient, statuesque and there is always a felicity of being around her, and she being my friend seems like a lagniappe to my existence!

She has lived her life, till this point, with family and friends that she will always remember and that she has cast her magical spell upon through her own ways. She’s loved, adored and brought up like no princess would have imagined!

But, she is bothered, deep within. She hasn’t been able to tell it out or put it in words. She has mysterious feelings that are unexplained as its time for her to choose a partner for her life. She is expected to leave her family behind, un-prioritize her friends and now believe in a stranger, accept to start her own family and live with him for the rest of her being. She had learnt this fact, am sure, even when she was not matured enough to know the meaning of her own existence or even measure the emotions that she was tied in with her family, but, while she grew up the life of a princess, she had been unaware that she was supposed to be a queen someday! 

A queen, who hides her own emotions and is bound to do things selflessly for everyone around, she is bound with a gratitude that she has for her father, who did everything to give her the world, fulfill her every little wish even before she could utter or demand for. She is bound with the unconditional love for her mother, for she gave her all the warmth and cozy feeling of being tied together into a family and nurture every little quality of her children! And now that the epiphany of her life’s truth has come forth, she is restless, she is helpless, she is confused but willing to accept the life that is not acquainted with or does not even have an illusion of! She has just accepted to face the fear of unknown!!

But, despite her acceptance, she wishes for things, little things, that she fears may go unnoticed, unfulfilled, but she believes in them! She fears she’s got an enticing personality that may be lost; she doesn’t want herself or her real being wished away when she is married! She expects that her man will not doubt her value and compel her to run from who she is. 

Anyone can see, in her magnificent beauty and soothing touch, one shall find nothing but heaven and healing! I, have seen heaven in her eyes, nectar in her voice!. She wishes her man be the Warrior King for her and protect her and only demands to be in love with each other; not that she hates being alone. She is fascinated with words. To her, words are things of beauty, each like a magical powder or potion that could be combined with other words to create powerful spells.. 

She is a person who doesn’t give up on you no matter what and she wishes that her man knows how beautiful it is to have someone, who adores him and the things he tries to do for her; she wishes to hold him and believe in him even when he stops believing in himself. And in return she only demands to curl up into his arms and let the beat of his heart soothe her to sleep. Because that sounds absolutely lovely. Her innocence is that of any infant! She expects to be complimented and her strength magnified, not her weaknesses, nor does she call for an argument where she has to shove her helplessness and bury it beneath six gulps of willful silence. She expects to be seen beyond her appearances and secretly believes in dalliance

Reminds me of the words “Her heart is a secret garden and the walls are very high! Only way to cross that wall is to love her, respect her and treat her like no one else could ever imagine to. If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it you won't give up and if you give up, you're not worthy.” and these are the lines that suits her perfectly.  You can put up an argument with her, even if its not her mistake and she will not utter a word, just to let you win the war but if you can see, she has bruises all over her heart from the words you told her. She gave you the part of her that she knew you could break, but wouldn't expect you to do it. 

She is worried, when she leaves behind her home, she would be leaving all the warmth of it and the feeling of being at home ever again, and now she has to build her own new home! As an assumption that most women go through, even at the thought of marriage can be summed up as - While she ever hardly knew how dawn looks like, now its would become her first acquaintance to greet the new day. She would wake up to the smell of a blanket that would remind her she is in a strange land with strange people around her, that IS her family from now. She would have no idea of their likes, dislikes, favorites, annoying, food habits and she would have a duty now to cope up with all that unknown little facts and inexperienced feelings. No! her mistakes are not going to be overlooked and she is expected to be the most perfect person, sooner or later to realize her little habits that she always had, but unaware of, is now considered to be mistakes and her real family believed to taught her those.

The water that runs through her hair, the smell of the shampoo, the touch of the towel constantly keeps reminding her she is far from her roots. The freedom to be in the clothes thats she was always comfortable with may or may not be accepted in the new home. She now has to learn to make decisions, but again, its not an independent one, not what she wants, but every decision that she makes HAS to match with the silent and untold rules at the new place. The food that she relished back at home will surely be missed and now her taste buds have to get acquainted to the new dishes whether she likes it or not. Her eyes have never been so watchful nor her mind so active and thoughtful, a million new unnamed fears and a zillion new unfriendly feelings pass through her heart and yet she struggles to succeed and keep up that smile on her face. Even a person, who has never known her before can see her smile and acknowledge of her unexplained but willfully forced happiness on her face. 

Every corner of the house now wishes for her touch and reform into new atmosphere but she’s afraid to try. The day passes by and keeps her busy in cooking, washing and cleaning and all the time there is one person that has never missed in her thoughts, her mom, who never let her move a muscle and let her enjoy every little chance to be a princess and relax! She misses her and thanks her to the core for always keeping her loved and taking up all the pain each day to cook, wash and do things which she now realize completely to be honestly thankful of! She wishes she could run back to her and just grab her and hide away in her arms but its an emotion that cannot be given any chance to survive. She recalls the time when she just had to wake up, take bath and breakfast would be ready, she now realizes the efforts behind her every little need being timely fulfilled. 

The day  slowly comes to an end and now she is unaware but she has a feeling of being responsible and that of having accomplished through the day but now she has another important responsibility for her man, talk to him, listen to what he has to say and support him, make love to him and in the midst of all these she has now forgotten that she had wishes and dreams too. She is back in to the blanket with the smell of not-being-at-home feeling and every little being of her existence seems gobbled up, vanishing and changed and now she unwillingly has agreed to accept the new relations to live for the rest of her life. The only thing that doesn’t really change for her is the memories that she brings along. 

It gives me so much pain to think that it is the story of almost every woman and yet they manage to put up the brightest and the most charming smile everyday and do things for you with all the love! I pray she finds a man who could realize after putting up a quarrel that she needs love too, she needs to be cared and adored like a baby. Being a man, he is always in a position to do as little as express himself in terms of bringing her flowers, chocolates, pizza, a good lunch, a dinner out together, a good foot massage, kneel and apologize for his mistakes and rudeness or just cuddle her up and she will be willing to forgive you without a second thought! 

An amazing quote, if I could choose, that can sum her up would be “I pray she finds someone wise enough to notice that god took his time when he decided that heaven was to be built inside her”

We have come together this far and am not sure if she left any trails in the sands, but she sure did over my heart and soul! I assure, dear one, none of the fearful assumptions mentioned above would ever touch you. I wish you a very blissful life ahead and that is always in peace and harmony! 

Writing this little note about “her” is like in justice being done! She is like a novel or the work of an artiste that cannot fit even in large volumes and I dared to sin and sum her up in this write up. 

-- An author that you provoked in me

Lexicon → to refer the meanings

Conflates - To blend together

Dulcet - Sweet, Sugary

Demure - Shy and reserved

Dalliance - A brief love affair

Epiphany - A sudden revelation

Emollient - A Softener

Enigmatic - Difficult to interpret or understand, mysterious

Felicity - Pleasantness

Lagniappe - A very special kind of gift

Statuesque - Attractively graceful and dignified

More such words can be found here if you interested:

http://deshoda.com/words/100-most-beautiful-words-in-the-english-language/

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