There's only one truth of life and it is DEATH, everything else is just a false idea we want to entertain and convince ourselves of them as truth. The other truth is that Death can take away life, it seems that it has won over life, but what's not realized is that death cannot be greater than love, it can NEVER overpower love. Love is Supreme and only love can ensure that the one's we loved always remain with us. We're caught in the moment and our emotions do not let us think and see the higher purpose beyond this moment of death.

When I hear of death, of my loved ones or those unknown, i cry. I cry out of pain, but more importantly it makes me sad that I am still alive and I have a lot more to suffer and face the life each day. The one's who are embraced by death are the lucky ones who finished their purpose here earlier than the rest of us and they have moved on to the next life to serve a greater purpose. Do not cry for the one who is gone from this world. Only in our ideas, we think they're dead, but in reality they have transformed into somebody else where. If you cry out of love or attachment for the one who's gone, then we must remember that they've been assigned another life by Lord Almighty/Supreme Power to spread and teach the same kind of love we experienced in their presence and we must learn to accept the idea of sharing that sort of love and letting them go in peace coz they taught us what we had to, but only we never realized when they were around us. Now its time there are other people who receive the gift of love. This teaches us the most important lesson of letting go and at the same time appreciate the one's who are still around us. Let us love them more, learn more from them and even more importantly let them know that we love them back equally while they are still here around us. 

Soon, there will come a time when you'll have to leave this world too. Make sure you've give so much love and spread so much positivity that there are a lot of people who will remember you for what you've given them and they will do the same thing in return to others. Death is feared upon, but death is beautiful. It puts an end to the sorrows and miseries. It takes away something from each of us, but leaves us with something more precious and it is the gift of wisdom to love more fiercely, immensely, wildly and without any filters or limitations. 

We are species stupid enough to fear telling someone we love, but we do not fear facing death. Let me do my part by reminding you that I love you a lot for the person you are, in all the ways and in all the forms that you choose to be. Let this piece of writing serve the purpose to let you know that I love you for the immensely vivid and such magnificent soul you are and your existence in lives our each life directly or indirectly connected to you is greatly appreciated. Until death do us apart, i will love you and there's no greater truth or purpose of this life.

Again, my idea of celebrating women for a day is different from the rest of the world. I do not believe in the concept of making someone feel special (rather say fool them) for a day and then treat them like a trash for the rest of the year. In fact, the celebration of one gender itself is a testament and start of inequality. Shouldn't we be encouraging to celebrate a better person or better human than debating about better gender?

You wanna know whats your real value for today? You will be attracted by discounts, coupons, special offers at boutiques, parlor, malls, that's the only attraction you will have today for being a woman. You will receive flowers, gifts, jewelery or clothes today and that's the only materialistic value you will be weighed in today for being a woman. Your gender has only left you to be no less than a product that will lead to high sales value and good business. Is that really what you are? Meaningless Poetries, cheesy meaningless messages shall be written for you for that's the only meaning you will have to your life today for being a woman. Movies and art films will be shown across different media because that's the only kind of art you will remain today for being a woman. You will be busy today drowning yourself in all those unreal and dreamy world and fake people being presented to you today with not a little idea that tomorrow will not be woman's day, you have no slightest gist of whats coming ahead tomorrow! 

Why don't you for once show your real strength and stand against such stupid ideology of celebrating a gender once a year and the ask what happens the rest of the year? You've been tortured, blamed, mentally abused, physically harassed by people of both genders and yet you are easily fooled to believe that you are celebrated and special today? 

Let me ask you a few questions but do not expect an answer for it. The answers are supposed to be food for your own thought. Where was your strength when you decided to keep mum about those dirty stares and piercing eyes when you walked on the road? Why didn't you raise your voice when someone let their devilish idea turn into reality and it lead to laying their unworthy hands on you? Where was your dignity when you decided to put up a skin show and present yourself as a mere product to those lusty and luring eyes or just get naked and let his filthy mind take advantage of you? Where was your kindness when you got carried away by someone else's wrong input about someone you loved/cared but eventually end up blaming them for things they never did? Why did you decide to hold on to the ego even though you realize your mistake and not forgive them? Was it so important to win an argument than lose your integrity? Why did you decided to lose your honesty and grace when you bitched about someone just coz they couldn't fit in your idea and ways of life? 

I do not deny your sacrifices, your strength, integrity and all those big words being used today. I only ask, why is it important to just throw these words around once a year and not put them into practice every day? Have you appreciated those who have really added to your life rather than just take away your peace? No doubt you are the most magnificent creation of Lord Almighty but do remember you have flaws and you’re not perfect. So, do not get fooled in the moment and get carried away by these illogical concepts where you only end up remaining a product and means for someone’s entertainment or earning. The real definition of women isn’t anywhere close what is being presented in the form of flowers, cards, gifts, free coupons and sales and that's nowhere really close to empowerment. 

When you stop fighting for a better or quality education, you have degraded your value. When you willingly want to cover your head and not because you were brought up that way or forced to follow it because of religious/cultural beliefs or for the fear of society, that's when you will be a real woman. When you stop playing the helpless poor girl card and when you really take charge and equally stand shoulder to shoulder, you’ll be respected honestly. Stop expecting men to earn and feed you. Why can’t YOU earn and feed a family that raised you to be worthy enough earning and not find the rule of a society to escape your own responsibilities? Why don’t you for once accept and acknowledge the sacrifices made by men for you, which you may never be aware of, but living off in a dream world that you did it all on your own! You are not a damsel in distress, a weakling, you are not someone who needs to be saved and fed with a silver spoon, you can save yourself and you can feed yourself, and you can defend yourself. Be your own knight in shining Armour, let the world cower under your fierce gaze and nobody shall ever look at you like you are a piece of meat unless you decide to present and be like one!

You are not the kind of woman who settles easily, so keep not-settling and take chances, take risks, be the woman you are meant to be, not the woman you were raised to be, not the woman the society wants you to be and absolutely get out of the idea that you were tricked into and forcefully beaten into a mold to fit the idea of a woman. Stop making excuses, excuses like "I can't do it, he'll never allow me to do it", "I can't go out late at night, I'm not allowed to go out after 8 pm", "I can't tell anyone, what would people think?", "I can't fight anymore, I'm not that strong." You are strong and you don't need permission to speak up and take what's yours. The only person not permitting you to be a real woman is You because! you’ve it ingrained in your mind that someone else's idea of living is the way you should be living. Your success isn’t about exceeding in a man’s world or the situations controlled by them. You are only strong when you stop getting influenced by other people's words and ideologies of how you should live your life. I do not ask you to stop being yourself or lose your real identity, i only plead you to stop acknowledging/accepting the misrepresentation and wrongly portrayed idea of being a woman. The only goal of your life is not to serve the man or get married and have kids, you have far more better goals and the most important one must be achieving your dreams.

 I rest my case here. Oh! Well, Happy Women’s Day! 

— VV & UG

Happy Republic Day? What? Come again please?

It only sounds rhythmic and three stupid words put together and just another day to excuse from routine and find a way to holiday. Absolutely it is. 

Firstly we need to free our minds before we speak of freedom and rights and how far we have come after 69 years, because our minds are still stuck in the same time-line, isn't it?

First let's understand whats Republic Day really? I'll keep it short and to the point. Its a day when we wrote our own constitution and put it into effect on January 26, 1950, written by Dr.B.R.Ambedkar, who was a victim of caste based discrimination. So, he created laws to play fair and for equal rights for those that fell under low caste and labor class, by the means of reservation system, which was meant only for 10 years. Result? Screwed up country, worsened situations. 

That reservation system is still being put into effect today. Education sector has reservation system which is illogical and unnecessary coz today in urban lifestyle do we see any discrimination based on caste/religion? 

The unskilled (obviously undeserving too) are being placed on jobs and that not only hinders the progress but over all development of the country is at questionable stake!

These constitutional laws and principles have become of questionable existence now.

Freedom of speech is no more really free! The concept of Equality is now thing of past. People with money get away with crimes or gender decides who has to be punished. 

Talk of women empowerment? First, rewrite the laws that blindly believes one gender is always right and the other gender is always a criminal. 

Banning of food based on cultural/religious values, ban of movies and riots in the name of religion/politics, bravo! We’re heading into a right direction with the principles of our constitution.

We are still lacking the basic resources like roads, quality education, clean drinking water, organic food. We don’t even question the existence of a political party and blindly choose one of them during elections.

School students senselessly parading the streets, adults driving around with flags calling it a patriotic feeling isn’t gonna help here. We have to educate the kids of the situation and how they have to make a change and only then the next generation will be different. 

I am not against India or against the feeling of patriotism, just another common citizen questioning and willing to find solutions to mayhem and chaos spread around in the name of constitutional laws and fundamental rights. Better to stand alone and question and make a difference than to blindly follow masses. 

A better patriot than the most. Jai Hind

—  UG & VV

What is the point of educating a girl, letting her pursue her career for a while and then force her into society approved arranged marriage where the real point of getting married isn't to make her life better but to justify the fulfilling of responsibilities of being parents in the eyes of the society? How could educated minds of these girls and ladies do not protest against any of it and silently decide to put an end to everything they have achieved so far and lead a life serving her husband and his parents?

Likewise, if being a guy you are equally participating in this whole drama of being married to be approved in the eyes of the society and if, in some or the other way you become the reason for your wife to stop pursuing her education/career, what is the use of such educational degrees that you boast about while getting married, if you can't support your better-half to continue doing what she always wanted to do?

okay! for the sake of discussion, let's agree that the girl has chosen this life for herself. But then, why does she have to put down her head always and live a life as if everyone is her master and her only purpose of life is to serve them?

Why should there be criteria of proving one's financial security, educational achievement, high job designations, property, saving, bank balance which are all mere a delusional concepts. Being a parent and being a gal who is willing to marry a person, based on such criteria, ask yourself, whats the guarantee that if the guy proves himself to be financially strong today, he will have the same financial stability always? What is the guarantee that a highly educated person will hold his dignity and respect when angry or when in arguments? Where does educational certificate guarantee about the personal behavior of a person or prove that in the state of aggression he won't be harmful to you?

From a parent's perspective, should we not be looking into most important factors to get your daughter married, to a man who is loving, who truly will respect her and support in her quest and she will not be humiliated or tortured or looked down upon just coz she belongs to a particular gender? Marriage is a responsibility to be shared equally by bride and groom, alas! its only the bride who has to compromise and adjust at every step and surprisingly its their own choice of life.

I rest my case and say again Don't educate a gal, if you only intend to enslave her at every step and every opportunity

Women are rapists too, even more cruel and brutal than the men who have actually committed crime. Lets first get the general idea of rape. Its is forcing oneself upon another without the consent of another. Then, it is absolutely rational to say that there are a bunch of women who are strongly inclined to focus on proving that the opposite gender is only worse and there cannot be a good one ever! Which is wrong! 

I am in no way supporting the brutal acts of rape by men, but please can it be confined to really those men only who have actually committed the crime and the others are NOT to be assumed of the same nature or trait? So, when these bunch of women set out statements that all men are same, not once another wise and educated class of women ask themselves "is this really right? or is this their opinions being shoved into my mind and i should really be forming my own opinion based on what i have experienced personally?". Agreed that there are men who are always trying to lay hands on you, but unless you raise your voice and be strict, they cannot proceed with their evil deeds. 

So, once the wrong notion of "all men are dogs and all men are same" is spread out, it is a forced thought that is shoved into the minds of everyone and as a human we are more prone to pick up and carry on what comes our way rather than ask a question if its even true or not. At this point, when each woman (excluding the ones wise enough) is determined to force and spread the wrong idea about all men, it is an act of forcing oneself upon another without the consent of another gender in question. Wait, go back to first paragraph and read the general idea of rape again? See! Women don't even realize but they have successfully raped the minds of many out there by forcing their own wrong opinions and baseless beliefs based on one bad example. 

If you see one rotten apple, is it right to burn down the whole forest with the notion and suspicion that every thing in the forest may be rotten? Have you once realized that all apples are not rotten but you also forgot that the forest is not only full of apples, but other fruits that you have not even seen or tasted! Like wise, you may have only seen the traits of one man and then tagged the rest of them without even giving a thought that there's a huge possibility of a lot better men than the women itself who co-exist in the same society. 

Not just that, have you even considered how women have mercilessly falsely accused men of rape? After the infamous 2012 gang rape of a student on a bus in Delhi, the number of rape cases reported to police in India rose sharply. But one survey concluded that in Delhi, in 2013-14, more than half of these reports were "false" - fueling claims by male activists that women are alleging rape in order to extort money from men. In most cases men had evidence that could prove, indisputably, they were not a rapist, but getting the police, media and society ruled by biased leaders to recognize their innocence was another matter. Men are found caught up in a system that seemed to care little about the evidence and a lot about branding them a criminal.

While the strengthened laws have done little to curb sexual violence, their unintended side effects are unmistakable. When a body called the Delhi Commission for Women published a report in 2014 describing 53% of rapes reported in the city the previous year as "false" this was seized upon by men's rights activists as evidence that the legal changes and noisy public debate had ended up making victims out of men. Of all the rape cases that are registered, only 1% is genuine, the rest are either registered to take revenge or to take advantage of the person in some financial matter. Forensic evidence is rarely used in Indian rape cases, so it's often just her words against his, which is considered enough to prosecute him.

Mind you, this section is a tight slap on the faces of those women, who blindly say anything about men. One person who decided to do her own investigation was data journalist Rukmini Shrinivasan. When she moved to Delhi from Mumbai to take up a post at The Hindu newspaper, she wanted to know whether Delhi's reputation as the rape capital of India was justified. Instead of counting dropped rape cases, she looked at the 460 cases that went to a full trial in Delhi district courts in 2013 and compared the initial complaint made to police with what happened in court. Her first discovery was that the media's alarm about stranger rape was overblown as it accounted for just 12 of the 460 cases. More than one third of the 460 cases involved young people who had engaged in consensual sex outside marriage until their parents found out and used the criminal justice system to end the relationship. Families are more willing to have the stigma of rape rather than having the stigma of their daughter choosing her own sex or life partner. 

Rukmini found that many of these cases dealt with inter-caste or mixed-religion relationships which are considered taboo in conservative society. There was often a typical script that was used when parents filed the case with the police. "I was repeatedly seeing stories of women being picked up in moving cars, being given a cold drink laced with sedatives which would render them unconscious, and then they would be raped," she said. "But when I started reading more and more cases I realized that there are patterns to how complaints are filed. So this sedative-laced drink becomes important because it is necessary to show that consent was not given." Another large category - nearly a quarter of the total - were cases where the man had broken his promise to marry the woman. Although this would not be considered rape in many countries, in India a man can be charged with falsely obtaining consent for sex if he promises to marry a woman and then changes his mind. "The parents say, 'You've lost your virginity, it's going to be impossible to get you married, you file this case, he'll get scared and he'll marry you,'" says Rukmini. Even if one is acquitted, one cannot regain that status. You can't prove your innocence to each and every person. People are quick to judge in a rape case without even knowing whether the person is guilty or not. A sessions judge in Delhi wondered whether those honorably acquitted of rape must also be considered rape survivors. Besides the obvious unfairness to innocent men, false accusations clog the overburdened judiciary and undermine the credence of genuine victims. The current scenario of an unrealistically low burden of proof (the law presumes a woman will not falsely claim to have been raped) coupled with an unacceptably high rate of false accusations is a perfect recipe for miscarriage of justice.

Viewing crimes against women merely as a law and order problem without addressing the underlying causes of the crime will not solve the problem of violence against women. The knee jerk approach of increasing criminal liability and enacting overly broad laws without understanding its unintended side effects has and will continue to only lead to questionable convictions and frittering away of resources from genuine victims. 

You must be wondering why all that irrelevant things are discussed? Because of the same debate that there are bunch of women who have spread the notion that all men are equal and all men are rapist and that has lead to the situation where innocent men are being accused of the crime that they never did and their whole life is turned upside down. Before you make your next statement, please form your own opinion and ask yourself really how many men have you seen committing such crime and your opinion is not based on what you have seen and heard from other people and that of media. Am sure, after speaking to a handful of women, who genuinely turned out to be wise, agree that not all men are same and it is absolutely those few small minds that try to beat all men into same mold of rapists and bad, and thats no different than being raped. For being a man, i have been abused, battered and bullied and it happens almost everyday from women who are always trying to ride on idea, we'll try every lie, every act just to prove that you should be guilty of the crime you never did, coz you belong a different gender. 

The references and parts of above articles have been taken from the below blog posts, which have been extensively revised and verified by the experts of this field, so with that notion, i hope it is a reliable place to seek references. Your opinions may vary and its okay to take your rant elsewhere but here. 

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-38796457

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/ash-murthy/a-prosecutors-disillusion_b_8100626.html